Dream About Ex-Boyfriend, Ex-Girlfriend And Prayers

Dream About Ex-Boyfriend



2 Corinthians 6:14, ”Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?”

Dream about ex boyfriend represent connection with your lost friends. The person could be your classmate, or childhood friends. However, If you are not in good terms with the person, this dream clearly tells you to resolve your differences. Or to break the soul ties between you and the person. Some ex boyfriends in your dream could also means the person is in big problems. If you are a woman, perhaps you have an agenda to marry him but you discover he is cheating on you.

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If you are not married, the ex boyfriend is coming back in your dream is majorly orchestrated by the enemy to delay your marital breakthrough. If you see your ex is visiting you, this means good thing is coming your way. But if the person is bad, it means you are about to entertain a stranger whose mission is to steal from you. This type of person knows how to manipulate others to get what they want. You will need to be very vigilant and prayerful.

On the other hand, if you dream and see yourself playing together with your ex boyfriend in collage, it shows that you are yoked with backwardness and retrogression. There is nothing good about this dream because it is being used by the devil to make you useless. You have suffered so much in life to the point that you did not understand your life again. To dream of having sex with ex boyfriend, it therefore means you have been enslaved to demons. If you are trying to call your old friend before this dream occur, it show a sense of love and care.

Having a dream where the old friend is chasing you, it shows that you have been going through a lot of problems in the hand of the person. This type of dream shows that the spirit of witchcraft in his or her life is trying to detain your glory. You may have noticed that the person does not wish you well, hence he is looking for where to scatter your plans and expectations.

Dream about ex boyfriend might mean that you are romantically interested in this person, or it can also mean that this person might have certain qualities that have tapped into your subconscious. Maybe you plan to go back to your ex boyfriend, or maybe your ex was a good person to you before you lost communication. But there are times when dreaming about him could mean the obvious: this person interests to have you back.

If you are worried about a certain old friend who left you in pain, then it is possible for you to see your ex boyfriend in your dream. This type of dream tells you to identify the reasons for your separation and also the reasons why there is no communication. However, if you don’t like what the old friend did to you, then it is better to avoid him or her before it become worst.

Having a dream where your ex boyfriend died, it symbolizes the person is about to die, give up, or possibly facing some tough challenges. If you are a good friend, it is very important for you to go on your knee and pray against the yoke of death upon his life.

If you see where your ex boyfriend is suffering with hard labour, it does not necessarily the person may cry. But the dream is telling you that such friend is about to lose something dear to him or her.

Sometimes, you are the  ex boyfriend who is finding himself in a difficult situation. If in your dream you are the woman crying, it tends to show sorrow and tragedy. You may feel powerless to change things. At the same time, this kind of dream might also mean that you are experiencing some addiction to commit suicide or take a wrong step.

However, if you have a dream where your childhood friend helped you, then it might just mean that you have positive feelings about this person where you feel he is the person God is trying to use to favour you.

You might be experiencing a desire to visit the person. Instead of visiting or calling the person, take it upon yourself to put it to God in prayers. There is nothing God cannot do. That’s why you need to be good people at all times.

If you are a man and you had a dream where your ex girlfriend got pregnant, the first thing that comes your mind is that perhaps I have nothing to do with her again then why she came to my dream to show me her pregnancy?

Such a dream might mean something else and that the meaning could just be that you have a spirit woman who has a child for you. A dream about this aspect can be a sign that something is about to happen in your marriage. If this is true, kindly go for deliverance.

Specific spiritual meaning of ex boyfriend in your dream

Sometimes it is hard for a person who is in a serious relationship to hook back to his or her ex. But God has a way of joining a man and woman together. Understanding dream about your ex helps you to know what’s God plan between both of you.

A dream about your ex-boyfriend or girlfriend indicate pains, regrets, time wastage and revealing some mistakes committed by you or on the part of your former lover. The damage a broken relationship can cause is more severe than coming together for reconciliation.

Giving your ex the platform to contact you again could be a very serious decision as you may be very careful  not to fall the second time. Most dreams about the ex-boyfriend or girlfriend are sometimes influenced by the state of mind.

This is determined by the power of the mind playing back the activities of your past relationship with your ex-lover.

Some break ups are divine, while others are caused by sentiment between the two lovers.  For example, if God says, both of you are not met together, you can never marry  the person.

All efforts towards the re-connection will not be possible.  If you fail to acknowledge your past mistakes or asking God for a direction, chances are that you will repeat the same mistakes that made your ex to break up the affair.


1 Corinthians 6:18, Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.

No matter your marital status, if you keep dreaming about your ex, it means there is an evil attachment. An evil attachment is a soul tie covenant that connects two people together. The spirit spouse can sometimes use the image of your ex to deceive you in the dream.

When you woke up from this dream and you keep worrying yourself about it, it shows that they have invaded the heart of your emotion.


Everyone wants to marry their best friends. This is a good decision! But when you cannot define any strong reason why your relationship failed with that person, having another feeling for your ex-boyfriend or girlfriend could be a serious spiritual problem.

It is possible that the devil can use the picture of your ex to capture and imprison your emotional feelings from the dream or spirit realm.

For example, If you and your partner struggle to have an open, heartfelt communication, the relationship will surely suffer and the dream of seeing your ex coming back, begging you or asking for forgiveness may be a defeated one.

In any relationships if two parties refuses to understand themselves, there will not be a successful relationship and when the person break up, he or she may not dream of coming back to you again.

Dream Interpretation of ex boyfriend

One of the reasons why dream about your ex-boyfriend or girlfriend should be taken into consideration is because of the ways both of you messed up the relationship. Seeing your ex in the dream is a platform where God wants you to learn something about your ex-boyfriend or girlfriend.

Dreaming about him or her may not necessarily mean that both of you are conditioned to marry each other. It does not even make sense when you start troubling the person on phone or through email.

Why? Because you did not pray about it to know whether this dream is actually from God, Satan or your state of mind. If God wants you to marry your ex, there will also be a confirmation of revelation on the person. God is not an author of confusion.

To dream of your ex-boyfriend asking for forgiveness, it is a good dream. It indicates a sign that God wants to bring him back to your life. He may also be confronted with some forces trying to prevent him from reaching out to you in the physical but through prayers and fasting, he will show up in no time. Love is a deep commitment from both people.

To dream that your ex-girlfriend is pregnant, it means you have a committed a sin and the only way to overcome this is to call or visit your ex to ascertain if she is pregnant. If it happens that she is pregnant in the reality, you have no choice than to accept the pregnancy and be responsible for the bills. If the baby is not yours, then you are free from troubles and bondage.

The woman and the pregnancy requires your care and financial support to make sure the woman deliver safely. If it happens the lady has aborted the pregnancy before you get to her place, it means the blood of that innocent child will drag you backward and make you suffer.

James 1:8, ”A double minded man is unstable in all his ways.”

To dream that your ex-boyfriend is proposing to you or showing love and great affection, then it means he still loves you . If such a dream is regular, we could safely say that God is bringing him for you but the challenges now that he is not receiving such revelation.

If you can pray on his behalf and if it is the will of God, he will surely look for you but as a woman, you have to make yourself available for him.

To dream that your ex-boyfriend or girlfriend dating another woman or man, Beware! This is the work of the devil to make mockery of you. Since it is your ex, you have nothing to do with him or her and the essence of dreaming about him or her adds no impact or benefits. Hence you ignore it.

This dream makes it impossible for you to date such a person who has the same character with him or her. If you still manage to cry for God to remove the woman or man and place you before your ex, that’s a misplaced of priority.

No matter how much you love your ex, if you see him or her  in a relationship with another woman or man, forget about him or her totally. Both of you are not married!

1 Cor 6:16-18, ”Do you not know that he who unites himself with a prostitute is one with her in body? For it is said, “The two will become one flesh”. But he who unites himself with the Lord is one with him in spirit. Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a man commits are outside his body, but he who sins sexually sins against his own body.”

To dream and seeing both of you  making love together, spiritual relationship is demonic!!! That one is no longer love again but spirit spouse love. Making love in the dream portends a very bad signal to you and create a negative meaning.

This is the reason why many relationship fail or die prematurely because of the way they make love with themselves in the dream. In fact, I want to state this very clear.

If you make love with anyone in the dream, you have just sold out your soul, spirit and body to the spirit spouse. Symptoms includes: Spiritual marriage and financial problem.

If you are dreaming about your ex-boyfriend or girlfriend because of the way you usually enjoy sexual feelings with him or her, then you are on your way to wilderness.

Sex has a way of bringing back a man and a woman that has parted their separated ways. Studied have shown that. It effectively hinders you from getting hook up to a good person.

This is a situation where the person suffers in many areas. If your relationship with your ex is already rooted with sex, forget it. God can never bring both of you together! Except you want to cast and bind in vain!!!

As a married woman, you should be dreaming about your lovely husband and not your former boyfriend. Once you allowed the love of your ex to get over your head, you may have serious setback and disappointments in your marriage.

If both of you happens to meet each other in the real world, there are chances that you may want to know where he is staying and his status. This thing normally happens to a married woman who currently in disagreement with their husband.

When a married woman is collecting or receiving money from her ex, this is a taboo and you should know that you are wallowing yourself in sins and reproach.

However, this also occurs when the woman is so cheap and flexible to men. The symptoms of this kind of dream are many. At the earlier stages of marriage, it does not show any symptoms.

If your ex-boyfriend forced you to abort your pregnancy which you did successfully before he broke up with you, you are suffering now because of your action. This scenario can takes away the glory of God from you as a woman and makes it difficult for you to be fruitful in all-rounds.

So many women perform this action and cry to God that it is devil that pushed them to do it.  If you can repent back, your lost glory can bounce back and make you a whole one more time.

Sickness is a great hinderance to relationship stability. If you dream that your ex-boyfriend or girlfriend is terribly sick, and you discover that he or she is truly sick in the physical realm, the truth is, God wants you to show care and love during the time of his or her health challenges.

If you can show the person serious care and God use you to heal him or her, believe me God’s agenda for both of you is to marry. When your ex is healed through you, it is certain the thought of God might be different from you.




  1. There is a soul tie between you and your ex: Collective bondage is very strong especially between a man and woman. This usually connects them together to bring serious curse. That is why the man or will keep dreaming about the ex. Whenever sex is established, this means that there is strong tie that makes the woman or man to dream of others. There is no way a man or woman can remember his ex without demon attached to it. A man or woman who keep dreaming about his ex may find it difficult to take a good steps in life. When you fail to break the tie, it will affect your marriage and children capabilities. For example, when a woman often dream of her ex-boyfriend, she needs deliverance.
  2. Sexual pleasure: Whether the relationship is blessed or the person is caring, the fact that your relationship is polluted with sex, the dream of seeing your ex is just a spirit spouse in display. There are so many people who are deceiving themselves thinking that they are meant for each other even when sex is involved. If you have had sex with your ex, which means you have shared part of your virtues with him or her. What this mean is that? You will remain single until you go for deliverance.
  3. You are not at peace with your current boyfriend or girlfriend: The Bible says, whatever you sow, you will reap. That is, if you sow good, you will reap good thing. If you sow bad attitude, you will reap harvest of disgrace and disappointments. If you are at fault, you will surely have problem in any relationship you find yourself, including the decision of going back to your ex. This means you are under a curse of relationship instability. A relationship where the man blame you for several reasons.
  4. You miss the character that your ex had: They said character is like a pregnant. It is something that cannot be hidden. If your present lover does not have a  good character like your ex, it will force you to accept the love from your ex-boyfriend or girlfriend.
  5. You  find no love in your current relationship: If you are in a relationship and you discover that your current man or woman is not having a good trait, the effects will be to lose the person. This will make you to consider the lover of your man or woman if such a person is free and accessible.
  6. Loneliness
  7. Remembering the gifts he gave you
  8. Allowing his or her thought to reside in your subconscious mind
  9. Praying for him or her always
  10. Because of his children with you
  11. When you are pregnant for him
  12. His or her picture create significant meaning in your life
  13. When his or her parents are very nice
  14. When he promise to marry you before he ran away
  15. When God wants you to accept or reject the person
  16. You are thinking of working things out

When comparing your present lover to your ex, neither one is clearly superior to the other in terms of love and caring. A committed person seems to be paying an equal amount of attention to each one, making a point to enhance the affairs for both of them. However, it would appear at the moment that who God has appointed to be your partner have more of a potential to change your marital taste.



  • Accept Jesus Christ as Your Lord and personal saviour
  • Repent from the sins committed in the affair and confess it to Jesus
  • Soak your mind with the blood of Jesus
  • The past is not associated with your destiny. Keep declaring positive things into your life
  • If sex is involved, plead for God’s mercy and forgiveness
  • Forgive those who have offended you. Do not bear grudges
  • Destroy all evil and polluted materials (money and other gifts)
  • Release yourself from the curse of bad luck in any relationship
  • Cast out demons attaching themselves to every relationship you enter
  • If you still love him or her, hear from God first before you accept him
  • Pray to make an inquiry about the problem
  • If this problem is a pattern in your family, go for deliverance for breaking it up
  • Give thank to God for setting you free


INSTRUCTION: Embark on 7 days fasting and prayers between 6am – 3pm



  1. O God, I repent and confess all my sins to you. Have me O God
  2. Every evil power connecting my soul back to my ex even in my husband’s house, break by fire.
  3. Every curse of anger affecting me, loose by fire, in the name of Jesus.
  4. O God, break every evil chain that joins these ungodly soul ties to me, that have been formed out of past relationships, in the name of Jesus.
  5. I break the power of any commitments, contracts, agreements, dedications and vows made over me and my family, in the name of Jesus.
  6. I restore my semen stolen from me through previous relationships, in the name of Jesus
  7. I bind any marine spirit assigned flowing around my marriage, in the name of Jesus.
  8. Every sex that I have done in the past with my ex, that has taking my glory away, I destroy all their evil covenants working against my marriage, in Jesus name.
  9. Any ungodly relationship that is prohibited in heaven, I cancel it now, in Jesus name
  10. I break every evil link that is connecting me to my ex-girlfriend/boyfriend, in the name of Jesus.
  11. Every covenant between me and my ex that has become unbroken, break now by fire
  12. My Father, any demonic relationship that I have entered that has closed the gate of my blessings, forgive me and have mercy, in the name of Jesus.
  13. I refuse to dwell on my past life, in the name of Jesus.
  14. Any demons that has penetrated into my life due to my past relationships, depart from me, in the name of Jesus.
  15. I destroy any evil pattern that is affecting the life of my ex in their family and its about to capture me too, break by fire, in the name of Jesus.
  16. Any kinds of demons in the body of my ex that has been transferred into my life through sex, out by fire, in the name of Jesus.
  17. Evil link between me and my environment, break y fire, in the name of Jesus.
  18. Any satanic reproductive organ used in draining my glory from the body of ex, catch fire, in the name of Jesus.
  19. I break with the blood of Jesus, all evil soul-ties affecting my life, marriage, finances, career, in the name of Jesus.
  20. I destroy, with furious fire, every evil soul-tie with any man or woman, in the name of Jesus.
  21. Every soul tie covenant with the family of my ex, break by fire, in the name of Jesus.
  22. I release myself from the hold of every bewitched and marine relationship, in the name of Jesus
  23. I withdraw my glory from the body of my ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend, in the name of Jesus.
  24. Garment of poverty transferred into my life from the body of ex, catch fire, in the name of Jesus.
  25. I release myself from the bondage of satanic powers, in the name of Jesus.
  26. Anything done against me by my ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend, backfire, in the name of Jesus.
  27. I break every unholy relationship disgracing me before God, in the name of Jesus.
  28. I release my organ trapped in the spirit realm, in the name of Jesus.
  29. I break every unconscious evil blood covenant between me and my ex, in the name of Jesus.
  30. Father, let the power of my ex over my life, loose your power over me, in the name of Jesus.
  31. Every ungodly vow that I had ever spoke at any time in my previous relationship, release me and break by fire, in the name of Jesus.
  32. I refuse to enter into a relationship that will kill me, in the name of Jesus.
  33. I release myself from the spirit of fornication and anger, in the name of Jesus.
  34. I break every power working against my marriage, in the name of Jesus
  35. Any relationship that wants to work against me and my children, break by fire, in Jesus name
  36. I command the devil to take their love off from my presence, in the name of Jesus.
  37. I break every evil vow, unholy promises between me and my ex, in the name of Jesus.
  38. I move from bondage to freedom  in every area of my life, in the name of Jesus.
  39. Every soul tie covenant between me and the marine kingdom, and witchcraft spirit, break and lose your hold, in Jesus name.
  40. I break every soul tie covenant between me and the spirit of poverty, backwardness and demotion, in the name of  Jesus .
  41. Every soul tie covenant between me and any herbalist, or between me and mad person, break, in Jesus name.
  42. I break every evil link between me and strange woman, in the name of Jesus.
  43. I destroy every property of the wicked in my possession, in the name of Jesus.
  44. I reject the curse of my ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend working against me, in the name of Jesus.
  45. By the blood of Jesus, I overcome every power challenging my marital affairs in the name of Jesus
  46. I recall all my blessings taken away by ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend, in the name of Jesus
  47. I will not marry Goliath as husband, in the name of Jesus.
  48. I declare with my mouth that nothing shall be impossible with me, in the name of Jesus.
  49. I will not loose my marital glory as a woman, in the name of Jesus.
  50. Thank you Jesus for answered prayers.



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